Underachievement

Underachievement can affect the gifted child.

Although, it may seem odd that these children that are bright, learn quickly, and love a challenge don't achieve at their potential, it can happen.

The reasons it does may include boredom in the classroom, lack of challenging work, stress issues, friendship issues and others.

At school, if your child is not being challenged he or she may get bored and assume there is no longer any point to trying.

This situation requires action. You may see signs like your child does not look forward to going to school.

Or, they may complain of a physical problem like stomach ache or headache.

Talk with your child. Try to figure out what is going on and how you can help.

Afterwards, ask for a meeting with your child's teacher to determine what the issues are and how best to deal with them.

In terms of friendships, if your child is having trouble making good friends they may act as though they are not as smart as they actually are.

By doing this, the gifted child may feel that other children will be more accepting of them.

Another reason may be bullying. If your child is being teased or picked on they may try to be more like everyone else in hopes that the bullying will stop.

This is why it is so important to have open lines of communication with your child.

It's necessary so that your child will not hesitate to come to you with any issues he or she may face.


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