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Parenting the gifted child can sometimes be challenging. These are amazing children and it helps to learn about their characteristics and eliminate the myths.

You always knew

Before anyone ever told you that your child was gifted, you knew how advanced and bright he was. He or she was probably demanding of your attention and your patience.

His love of books and learning was apparent at age early age. You knew he was going to keep you busy laughing and wanting to do everything you could to help him on his gifted journey.

Just when you think your preschooler can't possibly have another question to ask, he asks one.

They are so busy learning and discovering new and exciting things around them.

Being gifted is part nature from parents, and part nurture, improved by day to day life with family and others.

Learn as much as you can

Being identified as gifted effects both the child and the rest of your family. If possible, talk to other families with gifted children.

Share experiences and ideas with them, this can help you learn more about gifted children.

Read and find out as much as you can about giftedness and parenting the gifted child.

Respect your child's ideas and opinions. Listen to what they say and be sensitive to their fears or anxieties.

Gifted children often have intense emotions, they experience the world in an extra sensitive way.

This sensitivity can sometimes be mistaken for shyness.

Remember that the gifted label is used for school purposes and doesn't describe the child in every way.

They're still children

In other words, gifted children make mistakes, fight with their brothers and sisters, and act like the children they are. As you learn more, you will understand your child better.

It's a good idea to keep the lines of communication open. Ask your child what happened at school. Get to know their friends better.

Siblings of gifted children may need to talk about how they feel and need to be assured they are loved as much as ever.

Be patient and make your home a safe place where they can be free to be who they are.

Make rules clear, reasonable and fair but non-negotiable. Allow for wiggle room, but remember that gifted children are good negotiators.

Gifted children still want to play outside, with their friends, play board games, do crafts and much more, like every child.

Teenagers

As the gifted child becomes a teenager they face more challenges. They want to fit in and not feel separated from their peers.

Generally, gifted children don't talk about being gifted with their friends.

Teenagers don't like talking about their uniqueness for fear of not fitting in.

Rebellion is a natural process for many adolescents, and can sometimes involve learning to deal with the emotion of anger.
Learn how to help your teenager deal with their anger in healthy ways at www.angermanagementresource.com

Be prepared to discuss career choices with your teenager and courses or schools related to the profession they may be thinking about.


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