Gifted Girls

It's generally thought that girls start off doing better in school then boys. They're able to sit still longer and listen to what the teacher asks them to do. They seem to mature earlier than boys.

As the elementary years continue, they may begin to feel pressure because of their giftedness. Other children may tease them or call them names. They may feel odd or out of place because of it.

In high school, they often try to appear less gifted. They want to fit in and be a part of the group.

They take classes that are easier to avoid being singled out. They don't want to have to deal with a lot of questions about why they're taking chemistry or advanced math.

This can hurt them later because they may not have the right courses for the program they want to enter in university.

They sometimes need to reminded that it is okay to be who they are. Adolescence can be a difficult time, so more support and encouragement is needed.

The differences between the gifted girl and boy is often cultural and in response to what society values at the time.

They are seen to be more loving and caring and are not expected to be overly forceful while boys are encouraged to be go-getters and strong.

Teachers and parents need to reinforce the fact that it is okay to be smart. Doing well in school and going on to university is a good thing and that true friends will be supportive.

"No person is your friend who demands your silence or denies your right to grow." Alice Walker

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