Communication
Open lines of communication are vital when dealing with gifted children. The way you talk with them is different then with other children due in part to their intensity, sensitivity and perfectionism.
Gifted children are emotional and feel things intensely. Something that seems minor to a parent can be a big deal to them.
The key is to recognize their feelings, try to understand their point, and respond suitably.
As with all children, there needs to be limits. Gifted children are good negotiators and may be able to talk you into and out of things.
Don't get angry, rather listen and respond calmly. This is a far more effective way of interacting with them.
They need to know that you are available any time they need to talk. Try to avoid giving lectures, talking down to them or guilt trips.
Be positive and calm and remember that your gifted child is just a child even if they sometimes talk like an adult.
Let them know how proud you are of them and that you are there whenever they need you.
The ability to interact and talk with your gifted child will go a long way in making their lives easier and take away any stress they may feel.
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